This archived article was written by: Jasmine Tidwell
Being in love is not simple; sometimes it is a pain in the butt. When you talk to someone that is “in love” and they tell you everything is great, they are kidding themselves sometimes. In actuality, some days are a fight and struggle to stay together. It is a fight because love is not simple and easy, love is a full-time job in itself.
I read an online blog that said “Love is for everyone,” that is simply not true, love is for the strong willed and the stubborn at heart. When you say, “I love you,” you are really saying “ you annoy the heck out of me sometimes, but I still cannot see myself with anyone else”.
When you love someone, you must become blind to his or her faults. If you spend all your time worrying about what they are doing wrong, you forget to do what is right for your relationship so that it can grow.